I Did It

My alarm goes off and for once in my goddamn life I don’t hit snooze. The motel room is dark, and I unroll my yoga mat, kneeling below the chipped ceiling mirror. The carpet smells of ointment and cigarette smoke and the broken mini fridge buzzes next to the T.V. that has three amateur porn channels and this is where I’ve chosen to spend my last moments before running a marathon.

I stretch. I’d planned on relaxing, but I’m already calm. I knew this was coming: The day last spring my sister-in-law mentioned the Long Beach Half Marathon. ‘I want to do it, but I’m running the full. I’m only doing this once.’ The vacations I packed running shoes for, the mornings with sunscreen dripping into my eyes, the nights on Sunset with a motorcycle crew beside me chanting  ‘Get it girl! Get it!’ The blogs, the books, the breathing.

My mom calls.

It’s time to go.

In the car, my mom and her best friend feed me bananas and ibuprofen. ‘That’s all you’re going to have is a banana? Come here. Let me pin your number on. Have another banana.’ My mom is forever trying to get me to eat more breakfast and do some variation on letting her braid my hair.

The streets are blocked off. They drive me as far as they can.

I walk to the start line alone.

The sun is up. The harbor is damp.  A woman with meaty belt finishes the national anthem on a P.A.

The road ripples with strangers. All of us are numbered. I’m 4080.  I find myself a little pocket to stand in.

An air horn blares. The first wave goes. Then the second. My stomach drops. Third wave. Wait. Shit. But – the horn wails. My wave starts.

Crossing the start line is passing a border. Now I’m really here. I’m really doing this. I kick off with Jay-Z’s Run This Town. Shut up. It’s my marathon and I’ll be cliché if I want to.  The weather is perfect. Handmade signs tell me I’m awesome. My legs are children on their first recess after a week of rainy days.

I’m addicted to the thrill. It’s a dangerous love affair.

I had planned to take a shot of tequila before my first time doing stand up. I drove off anonymously into the night and arrived at an art gallery that sold only tea. Signed up, crossed the street, and drank a forty alone in my car. When it was my turn, all I could see was bright light in my eyes. My knees knocked. I squeezed out my jokes through throat spasms. In the black beyond the lights, people laughed. Whoa. I can do this.

Whoa. I can do this.

I round out mile six near the Queen Mary. More strangers. More banners. Even the guy with the Romney sign is rooting for me. Today, they’re all on my side. My boyfriend waits by himself in the sand. When I see him, I run faster. He kisses me but won’t let me stop. ‘Keep running!’

I do. Six and a half miles. That’s a half of a half marathon. Three and a half to ten and then just sixteen after that. Just sixteen. Just sixteen? Plus three. So, nineteen. I become aware of the tape holding my big toenail on. (Sorry boys, I’m taken.) This tape won’t stop rubbing.

Keep running.

I always knew I’d struggle in my twenties. I even looked forward to it. I’d wait tables and substitute teach. I’d have other starving artist friends to practice improv and drink Two Buck Chuck with. I’d live in a shithole and blow too much money on headshots. I would also have a pilot read by a big production company and lose sleep before the meeting where a barefoot Buddhist executive would tell me I wasn’t edgy enough. I’d buy new shoes for a meeting with a cable channel who would tell me that women could either be funny or pretty and wonder if they were calling me ugly or unfunny. I’d sell an idea that would give me enough money to finally quit my day jobs and tell all of my friends and family about it before learning that the economy had tanked and the deal had been aborted. I’d hang up from learning said news, and look into the eyes of one of my students who didn’t mean to make me cry when she asked, ‘Ms. Barker, will you be a substitute teacher forever?’ Jesus Christ. How much longer was this going to last?

Nine miles.

I’m at nine miles. A little sore, but this is what I signed up for. Last mile of the single digits. Nine miles is nothing. I eat nine miles for breakfast. This isn’t my normal nine miles, though. I’m running a marathon right now. I said I’d do this and here I am. The beach. Look at the beach. Powerade. These wonderful people keep giving us Powerade. Thank you. I said I’d do this and here I am. Thank you. Keep running. Ahead, they’ve made a real song and dance out of the ten-mile marker. A big ass inflatable ‘0’ we’ll run through. Double digit time, brought to you by Cliff Bar. So clo--

Fuck.

Ouch.

Goddammit.

No.

My right knee.

It’s a sharp, searing pain. Keep running.

I hobble, deflated, through the inflatable ‘0.’ This isn’t how this was supposed to happen. I have so much further to go. Keep running. I falter like a gunned down animal. Why. Why. Why.

I stretch on the side of the path. People pass me.

So many people have passed me. She got that job? He’s doing late night? I know jealousy isn’t healthy, but neither is a cold, and I get those sometimes too. The race is long, and only against yourself and you lose yourself when people won’t stop passing you.

Why?!

I have to finish. I’m already ten miles deep. It’s not broken. You can do this. I run-limp, focused on the pain that shoots up and down my leg. I’ve lost my rhythm. At least I’m moving forward. A woman holds up a sign:

Someday you will not be able to do this. Today is not that day.

I was not a good chair aerobics teacher. In my offense, I didn’t really try. How hard could it be to move around in a chair? We met in the common room of the nursing home. They were sweet people with transparent skin and joints that moved liked rusty gates. ‘Okay. Let’s start out with some…uh…lift up your arm. Great. Lift up the other one.’ They complied. I checked the clock. One minute down, fifty-nine to go. What the hell had the last teacher done for an hour? ‘Lift up your arm again?’ A respirator gurgled. A student in the front row snored.

Today is not that day.

The pain in my legs are the braces Forest Gump wears and as I run I separate from them and they break and fall by the wayside. A fork in the course. The half marathoners veer off. Thirteen miles. I only have to do what I’ve already done. To my left, the course has turned around. I watch the faster runners pass mile twenty-two. How are they so far? Eventually you’ll be there. Just worry about right now. More Powerade. Thank you. A high five. Thank you. You’re lucky to be here. Thank you. This is bitchin’.

The last time I ever drove with my step dad he picked me up from the airport. I had come home from New York, where I’d done the first staged reading of my musical. ‘Hey T!’ He’d bounded toward the baggage claim in his long shorts and sneakers. Jim bounded everywhere. He’d had a brain tumor before we knew him. One they told him he wouldn’t survive. After he proved them wrong, we wouldn’t stop smiling about it. Not for anything. Nothing could make him as annoyed as the simple act of being alive made him happy. He never bitched, but everything was ‘bitchin’. ‘ He and my mom saw The Stones. ‘They were bitchin’!’ They got a DVR to record his cop shows ‘This is bitchin’!’ He hurled my suitcase into the bed of his pick up. ‘We’re so proud of your play. It’s just… bitchin’.’ Four months later, he would lose his license to seizures. Two years later, we would lose him to the same.

Guess my ankles are sore. Guess my knees are throbbing. Can’t think about that. Just short mantras to match the fall of my heels: I can do this. This is possible. Mom and Jim run beside me. The three of us alternate phrases in rhythm. ‘Go T!’ ‘This is bitchin’!’ ‘Go T!’ ‘This is possible.’ They get me to mile sixteen.

My siblings run up next. Seventeen. My boyfriend. Eighteen.

Water. Thank you. Banana. Thank you. You’re awesome. Thank you.

Dad. Nineteen.

I have no body and I am only a body. A robot made of muscle. A streak of light that pulses with every shot of encouragement.

A little hill. Push harder. Pain so normal now it doesn’t hurt.

College kids line the course. Their magic marker enthusiasm surges as I pass.

‘Yeah! This guy is the man!’

Guy?

Oh. The seventy year old man in front of me.

‘Woohoo! You’re amazing!’

Thank y—Oh. The guy in the wheelchair. Also in front of me.

‘Yay! You’re great too!’

Okay. This time they mean me. Somehow, I’ve managed to run a marathon and still get pity cheers.

Keep running.

I’ve been saving Uncle Mike for nineteen to twenty.

We sat on the deck overlooking their farm: berry vines and wild grass and a ’72 Chevy tucked into the arms of an oak tree. ‘I always wanted to be a pilot. To me, that’s closest you can get to God, being up there.’ He ran his hands across the controls on his wheelchair. ‘I got to drive a glider plane over the Sierras last month. Go to hold the steering wheel. That kind of control…when you spend most of your life in one of these…’ We both looked back out at the sky. ‘I didn’t know this would happen to me. I’m glad I got to be pilot before it did. Got to live my dream. I don’t look back and wish I’d worked in a cubicle. You’re following your dream. You’ll be okay.’

Knees. Thighs. Ankles.

You’ll be okay.

One foot in front of the other. Uncle Mike runs next to me. Runs. He smiles. He’s not in his wheelchair. When you spend most of your life in one of these. Just keep running. You’ll be okay.

Mile twenty. Oh my god. Mile twenty. The homestretch. You’re really going to do this. I switch to a mix one of my best friends has made. This will get me through. This will get me through.

‘Tess Barker, this is all you, baby! This is me and Eric, and we just have one piece of advice. Keep going! Go Tess Go!’ My own homestretch song! They sing Britney Spears lyrics and chant ‘Go Tess, Go,’ and now it’s my friends who run with me. The ones who did drugs on the Price is Right with me, the ones who’ve rode bitch in the backseat to Albuquerque with me, the ones who I’ve shared countless flasks and pizzas with. Some to my left, some to my right, some run behind me and push. And push. I’m so lucky to have people to push.

Mile twenty two. You said you’d be here, here you are. You said you’d be here, here you are. I run with my mom again. This time just her. She chants to keep my feet moving, ‘I’m always rooting for you. I’m always rooting for you.’ That’s a lyric in my musical.

Opening night in New York, the new dress she wore. The way she cried all the way through. The champagne she let herself have at the reception.

I’m always rooting for you.

At the end of the mile, she’s there in real life. Like she knew. She and Mary scream and thumbs up and take pictures. Moms are so good about pictures. ‘You’re almost there! You’re almost there!’

I’m almost there. I’m almost there.

This phrase alone gets me through the next two miles.

Bigger crowds. More signs. Holy shit.

Last mile.

A firefighter hollers ‘Looking good, 4080!’

I go back to Jay-Z.

Victory’s within the mile. Almost there don’t give up now.

I’m about to finish a marathon. You said you’d do it, here you are.

Ocean. People cheering and cheering: the best kind of paparazzi. Everything in slow motion. I could stay in this mile forever, but the finish is close. Where’s Sean? There The finish gets closer. Closer.

And I’m done. Done.

The end happens fast.

I did it.

I just ran a marathon.

I take out my headphones. Time and sound return to their normal speeds. Sean runs up and kisses me.

‘Congratulations!’

Oh yeah. English. Normal conversation. Say something.

‘Thank you. Now let’s get a fucking beer.’

(...and I'll probably do this again)

On Target

Target dressing rooms are lit like gas station chip aisles. Light that is at once bright and gray, severe and dull.

Every year I come here high to pick out a bathing suit.

I should just do plain black. Black top, printed bottoms. Will that make my ass look big? Or my boobs look smaller? Is the print supposed to be on top? What did that magazine say? Maybe the ruffle one. It’s weird. I like it. No. I’m high. Can I pull off strapless? Stick to halter. Halter always works. I love halter. I hate this black one.

I end up with a controversial purple and gold thing. One strap. Braids of fabric. Sparkles. Later this summer, on some impulsive Tuesday, I’ll come back and buy a black one.

I’ll always be chasing the Perfect Black one of 2004 :The year I get too into yoga. (It isn’t my fault. I live in Santa Monica.) Perfect Black is from the Macy’s in the Promenade. Buy it on my birthday with a check from my grandparents. It rubs against my schoolwork at the beach: sandy notebook pages and wind wrinkled drafts of scripts I’m too proud of. It soaks at night in motel hot tubs: the hot Indio air wicks the spit from your tonsils and yes I’ll have another beer I just graduated college. It droops through the dusty slats of my mom’s pool recliner in its later years: dogs lick droplets of pool water from the concrete and more protein shake, forget what it’s like to chew, the raw meat of my face held together with screws, more Vicodin, and at least I can work on my tan here. Perfect Black Top disappears quietly.  Perfect Black Bottoms stay with me through four apartments.

Anchor Print is bought in the dead of winter, and maybe that is why it’s a trooper. Quick Target stop before Big Bear. It makes it’s premiere at night: the water sears our legs and the cold air cuts our faces and it’s hard to say which feels better and later I’ll have to pretend to like Scattergories. It’s faded when summer starts. It comes on after my bridesmaid dress: Coors Light and chlorine and Lauren’s still in her veil, and here comes security again, and I should go to bed but instead I stay up and make out with the wrong groomsman (I have a boyfriend. They’re all the wrong groomsmen) and Anchor Print spends the next two weeks in my trunk tied up in a Vons bag. It gets saggy and comes camping the next summer: string cheese moist from the cooler and flip flips left at the creek and mushrooms and Jameson and Jameson and someone come pee with me and these are the best people I’ve ever met and I don’t have a boyfriend anymore.

Blue Stripe is from a Target in Texas.  We drive to Austin in a rented SUV and listen to Britney and smoke pot from an apple and never get tired of staring at the sky.  It pops its cherry in the hotel pool, where another girl has Blue Stripe as well. She’s there with her parents. It bothers her more than me. Sucks to be fifteen. Sucks to get a bathing suit from a Target in Texas. Back in L.A., Blue Stripe is on all the time: rinsed and hung and back on before it’s dry. Pool parties after sleepless nights: naps in rafts and dance music over huge speakers and Blue Moon to kick the hangover. Weekday pool parties: chips and salsa and the smoke of charred chicken and another perfect day. Pool parties with good people and great dogs: cannonballs and grown ups being thrown in and water guns and floatie noodles and who left us here unsupervised and this is why we live in L.A.

And anyway, now here I am with this purple and gold thing.

Low Rent

Palms is a neighborhood in L.A. It has a Ralph’s, five storage units, and three unrelated streets named National Boulevard. It smells vaguely of cat litter and intensely of the 10 Freeway.

There are very few palms in Palms.

I moved there when I was twenty two.

On purpose. Kind of.

I was out of college and into debt, and no longer had any business living by the beach.

The apartment my then boyfriend and I found was cheap. And huge. And adorable. And we should have known something was wrong with it.

That something couldn’t have been Kozetta, the eighty- year- old landlord, who we met the day we found the place. We went flying through the unit, losing our minds over its many amenities, ‘Green carpet! A stove from the sixties! Checkered linoleum!’ Kozetta sat quietly in the corner with a sweet, unassuming smile, and a tight ponytail that pulled her face back neatly. She handed us an application, ‘Deposit’s got to be cashier’s check,’ and licked her lips slowly, a New Orleans soothsayer, ‘I dot my i’s and cross my t’s.’

Moving day was a stuffy afternoon in June. We played Bob Marley and ripped mismatched dishes out of cardboard boxes stolen from behind Smart & Final. And we met Stephanie, Kozetta’s fifty- year- old daughter.

Stephanie didn’t start out by telling us about her crack problem. First, she let us know she lived next door. Then she offered to sell us her bed. Then she showed me where she kept her spare key, in case I didn’t hear from her for a few days, and smelled ‘something funny’ (her dead body) coming from next door. Stephanie reassured me that this was only a cautionary measure, and explained that she generally smoked rock in moderation, because she ‘wasn’t a simpleton,’ before repeating the phrase ‘What had happened was’ several times as she tripped on thin air.

Stephanie never was one for knocking. Rather, she would stand at our metal screen door, dressed in a trench coat and slippers, holding a commuter’s coffee mug, and demand (not ask), ‘Got any wine, got any weed?’

Of course, I always had both.

So, being the good hostess that I am, I would get Stephanie stoned and pour a little Cab in her coffee mug. This is how she got the name Sippy Cup.

Sippy Cup had a jolly disposition: hearty laugh, liked to dance, and often came bearing free samples of perfume, or expired produce from Trader Joe’s. She wouldn’t have scared me at all, if I hadn’t known about Betty Davis.

Betty Davis was her best friend, and also a loaded revolver. She lived in the pocket of Sippy Cup’s bathrobe. Now, I’m all for guns, and I’m all for dancing, but even a simpleton like me knows that you’re not supposed to mix the two. In Sippy Cup’s defense, she only did this on special occasions, like parties, or any time she was extraordinarily spun on crack cocaine. She would turn up the bass on her favorite Young Joc song, sway her hips, cackle, and jovially toss her lethal weapon into the air, letting it spin a few times before catching it. Girls will be girls, I suppose.

You’d think Kozetta would have been overly accommodating to us, given that we paid our hard earned money to rent an apartment that came with a both central heat and her gun wielding, drug addled daughter. You’d think that, but you’d be wrong.

The first time Kozetta tried to evict us, it was because we didn’t have a bath mat. It was difficult to discern at first that we had been evicted, as the official notice came typewritten, on a half-slip of paper, and was in the style of Charles Dickens failing English Composition class.

‘You and each of you shall take notice, on, dated, this, hereby, the fifth day of January. You have hereby been given, such as it may be, must vacate the premises for the following reasons: (Handwritten) Failure to own a bath mat.’

Seriously.

Apparently, the Sippy Cup crackle hadn’t fallen too far from the tree.

We obviously had to move out. Instead we complained to rent control.

They sent Kozetta a reminder that ‘Failure to own a bath mat,’ was not, in fact, a viable cause for eviction. The letter kept us in our home, but it did not keep the ‘eviction notices’ from appearing.

They came more frequently than take out menus. Always typewritten, never coherent.

‘Due to shampoo bottles on ledge,’ ‘Excessive use of sink,’ ‘Because of lawn chairs and your negligence.’

Tom at rent control was on autodial. Sippy Cup continued to siphon chardonnay.

But really, you should have seen how cool this apartment was. Usually.

One Sunday, as I watched Law & Order reruns like a goddamn American, all of the electricity in our living room went out. Five minutes later, grass, flowers, and a touch of sewage came overflowing from our toilet. Within the hour, a cabinet door came unhinged and clocked my boyfriend in the forehead, and, apparently, opening a vein.

Luckily, Kozetta was next door, picking up Sippy Cup for church. I watched from inside as my boyfriend flagged her down, lightly concussed, gripping his bloody head.

After listening to his concerns, Kozetta paused and nodded sympathetically.

‘I’m sorry about your head, baby.’

Aw.

‘But fuck your head. And fuck Tess too. Fuck her in the ass. Fuck her hard. In the ass.’

Eighty. Years. Old.

‘You guys are white trash. And I know white trash. I used to shit in an outhouse.’

Things were never the same between Kozetta and I after that. How do you look someone in the eyes after you’ve pictured them shitting in an outhouse?

Still, we had gotten used to the eviction notices, and Sippy Cup sometimes gave us her leftover antipsychotics, and moving really is a pain in the ass.

So we stayed, and I generally avoided the geriatric landlord hell bent on sodomizing me.

Well, I tried.

I was singing show tunes in the shower when the shit really hit the fan. It started with the doorbell.

Ring.

‘Just a minute!’

Ring. Ring.

‘One second!’

RINGRINGRINGRINGRINGRINGRINGRING.

I opened the door to my ‘caller’ whose eyes were bulging, even as she squinted.

‘Let me in.’

‘Kozetta. I’d love to, but you have to give us twenty four hours notice.’

‘Don’t be stupid. Let me in my apartment.’

That’s when the elderly woman shoved me. Hard. Knocked me to the ground. Stepped over me, and broke into my home.

I want to say I didn’t hit her back because of her age, or that I was in such shock over being assaulted by my landlord that my reaction time slowed. The truth is, however, that old bitch was stronger than me.

When I got back to my feet, she was running rabidly around the place, snapping pictures and sloppily muttering obscenities.

I kept a safe distance and called the police.

By the time they arrived, however, she had peeled out in her lifted F-150.

I was given a brochure on how to file a restraining order, and some very convincing arguments on why I should get a Westside Rentals account.

And so we finally moved. Six months later.

We lived in Palms for two and a half years. We gave nearly thirty thousand dollars to a family that filled our lives with senseless eviction notices, physical and verbal abuse, and the ever present fear of overdose and/or gunfire, all because we were too lazy and poor to relocate to a better neighborhood. So, in the end, I suppose Kozetta did fuck us in the ass. And it probably was because we were white trash.

Why I’m Not Giving Up Anything for New Years or Lent or Whatever.

I’m driving uphill this morning when I run out of gas.

It happens quickly. My car rolls back. It doesn’t surprise me at all.

I have no idea how long the light’s been on.

It’s been weeks. I put money in. Sometimes enough to shut it off all day. I’ll be back soon, though. Could save myself a trip tomorrow if I just fill up all the way right now. Just can’t admit that I’m putting that much into the tank. Sometimes I let it get so empty the light stays on even after I’ve fed it. This only makes me think that empty means kind of full. My car is crying wolf. I can make it go for days when it says it can’t.

Usually.

There are days when that light is not fucking around. Today is one. It isn’t my first. It certainly isn’t my best. I’ve run out of gas in a snowstorm, on the 405, and when I first got my license (which is only notable because it led to a chain of events that culminated in me riding a bike to the E.R. to have gasoline pumped out of my stomach, but that’s a horse of a different color.)

The point is, it’s happened enough that when my car starts rolling backwards, down a steep hill, because of my negligence, on this, the second day of the new year, I’m not phased.

I call Triple A.

A guy comes.

I give him my last nine dollars.

It doesn’t make the light turn off.

I would be mad if I knew what to be mad at. The problem is the no gas, which is the problem with no money, which is the problem with being in love with instability, which is the solution to being in love with lots of things, and who can be mad at that?

So I pay the guy, and I’m running on fumes, which makes me anxious in its familiar, constant muted way.

You have to get your shit together.

That’s what people do.

You have to start being able to fill up all the time.

You have friends who fill their gas tanks and raise kids.

You should never have kids.

You should already own a home.

I realize that I need tampons, and I stop at CVS on the way home. They’re only four dollars, and that’s less than the low balance email from BofA said. It should be fine.

It’s not.

Your card’s not working.

The clerk takes my visa. She puts it in a plastic baggy, and runs it through the machine again. And again. Even she doesn’t want to believe that I can’t afford one goddamn box of tampons.

Try running it as debit.

Fuck me.

Let me see it again.

Like the card’s the issue.

I really do need those tampons.

Come on.

I have another check coming soon. Why isn’t it here yet?

Why do I cut everything so close?

I can’t just not have tampons when I need them.

I will though, because I murmur something about calling my bank, and slink out. At least I’m on the kind of empty that will get my car home.

I search old purses. Luggage. The rest of my life, I have tampons stashed everywhere, like eggs on Easter morning. Right now, there are none to be found.

What am I going to do?

How did this happen?

I have a college degree.

Everyone else is hiking and starving their vices.

I’m quitting pot.

This is all happening because pot makes me stay in bed too late.

Made me.

I’m done now. I’m quitting, and everything will be better tomorrow.

I remember a Target giftcard from my Christmas stocking and drive with the gas light on to La Brea.

(I’m inventive. That’s how I can go so long on vapors.)

And now the tampon light is out, and that will be fine for now, and that check is coming, and I’m quitting pot. And drinking. And sex. And T.V. And everything will be better tomorrow.

I go to an open mic with friends because thank god there’s that. I brag about quitting pot and drinking. I brag about a lot of stuff before I deserve to. I’m quitting that too.

I’m glad I came.

Until a ketchup explodes all over me. From behind.

It’s not the guy’s fault. He’s just having a burger, and there’s too much ketchup or air or excitement squeezed into that bottle, and so it explodes all over me and the new jacket I got for Christmas and I know it’s not his fault, but he could at least say he’s sorry. Someone should be.

Why can’t I have one nice thing?!

So my friends drop me back off at home, where the dishes aren’t done, and the laundry isn’t put away.

Alone now, I breathe, and the air works its way through the little knots in my chest. Like a car going the wrong way over tiger teeth.

Then I pack a bowl and pour a whiskey, and yes, I feel bad about it.

I shouldn’t have told people I was quitting, and I bet I’d feel great if I actually stuck to it, so I eat five cookies while I smoke my bowl and I drink my whiskey.

Everyone is quitting things and ‘changing’ their lives, but that’s not really my problem. Everyone is not having a run- out- of- gas- use- Target- giftcard- for -tampons -have -ketchup –explode- on- your- new –jacket- day.

Leave me alone.

My vices are my old friends, my bubble bath, and I’m delighted to have them on nights like this.

I don’t look back on the years of my life in terms of the actual day they started.

I don’t look back on the years of my life at all.

Everything either happened a few months ago, a couple years ago, or when I was eight.

Bad habits and good times drop in and out like fickle lovers.

They don’t follow the calendar year, and they’re too loyal to leave me just when I need them. They know I won’t want to say goodbye, so they slip away quietly, and one day, I’ll turn around and notice one of my old favorite mistakes is missing.

Maybe my strongest weaknesses will eventually fade away. Maybe I’ll naturally outgrow them, and someday I’ll look back on this as a phase I was going through a couple years ago. I’ll never look back on this as 2012, the year I got my life together, though, because my memory is a messy shoebox of pictures, and not a linear day planner, and I highly doubt that anyone in human history has ever truly gotten their life together on January 1^st or any day, for that matter.

So, I’m fine bathing in my indulgences tonight.

I mean, Jesus. There are only so many times you can run out of gas in one day.